Use positive reinforcement. When he spends time with you doing things you enjoy, whether it is shopping, talking or running, thank him, and tell him how important it is to you.
Be cheerful. To a man, a frown on a woman's face is a signal to stay away. If you want his company, be pleasant. If you want to be able to hold a conversation with him, keep it positive. Don't complain. There is a fine line between expressing frustration about things that have happened to you during the day, and complaining. The former is occasionally okay. The latter will make him feel unloved.
Be pretty. Men love to talk to a pretty woman. Even if it is a small effort, such as brushing your hair before you go to bed, or wearing colors that he likes on you, keep in mind that part of his enjoyment of your company is your feminine beauty. Take advantage of the magnetism you naturally have as his lover to keep him interested in being with you and talking to you.
Talk his line. Don't monopolize the conversation. Talk about something that interests him. Make conversation a positive experience for him. If you do, he will spend more time at it, become more skilled, and gradually become more willing to talk about things that may matter more to you.
Be a pleasant companion for him. If you spend time with him doing some things that he enjoys, he will find it easier to spend time with you doing things that you enjoy. Better yet, find some things that you both enjoy, and spend more time enjoying them as a couple. Find or develop with him a long list of recreational activities. Make a short list of ten that you enjoy or would like to try, and have him do the same. Check your lists to see if you have an interest in common and pursue it together. If your lists are completely different, trade lists and each of you choose a recreational activity from the other's list. Pursue these two hobbies during your time together.
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