Romance is the feeling of being "in love" with your mate. It is a combination of caring (selfless love) and attraction (desire). This combination of love and desire strengthens and enlivens the marriage relationship.

You can create romance in your marriage by meeting your mate's most important relationship needs and helping him or her to meet yours.

Follow these links to learn how to meet your mate's 7 basic relationship needs and become the man or woman of his or her dreams:

1. respect – hers | his
2. appreciation – hers | his
3. pleasant companionship – hers | his
4. spiritual solidarity – hers | his
5. domestic support – hers | his
6. to feel cherished – hers | his
7. sensuous affection – hers | his