Help Your Wife Cherish You
Cherish her
Women are naturally loving and tender. If yours isn’t, there is something wrong. She may feel that you have rejected her, or she may be angry. By cherishing her, you may be able to help heal whatever wounds she has that are making it difficult for her to cherish you.
Be accepting of her natural efforts to cherish you
You may not appreciate some of the things she does out of concern for you. They may offend your sense of independence. Be careful to accept those efforts graciously anyway, so that she doesn’t feel rejected. Then use thoughtful conversation and positive reinforcement to teach her how you prefer to be cherished.
Talk about it
Cherishing may mean something different to her than it does to you. Find an opportunity to discuss this subject lovingly and patiently with her.
Use positive reinforcement
When she shows her concern for you in a way that you can appreciate, thank her, and tell her how it makes you feel.
